Was it just me?

Privately record what a boss, landlord, doctor, coach or date did. If another woman ever reports the same person, you'll both know — and can choose to stand together.

Encrypted & privateNever published. Identifiers are stored as one-way codes, your story is encrypted.

Matched, not exposedWhen codes match, you both get a quiet heads-up. Nothing else is shared.

Connect only if you both agreeStrength in numbers — on your terms, when you're ready.

Join free or log in to make a private report. It takes 20 seconds — just your email.

Questions

Can anyone see what I write?

No. Your story and label are encrypted. The person's name, email, phone or profile link are turned into a one-way code (a keyed hash) — we can tell when two codes match, but we never store the identifier itself in readable form.

What happens when there's a match?

You each get an email saying another woman reported the same person. Nothing else is revealed. If you both choose "connect us", we open a private conversation between you. You can also just know you're not alone, and do nothing.

Will the person ever find out?

Not from TrustFem. Reports are never published, never shown to the person, and never shared with anyone unless you decide to share your own story yourself.

Is this a way to report a crime?

No — it's a private tool to find others. If you want to report to police, your employer or a regulator, our guides and helplines can help you understand the options.